10. A lazy Man
If he won’t help out around the house now, what makes you think he will once you’re married? All the lawn care, garbage nights and house repairs would be in your hands. It’s important to feel like your man wants to help you and take care of you, but a lazy guy will be lacking in this department. Don’t even think about what raising a family would be like with a lazy husband.
9. A Liar
Oh, you think he only lies to other people? Well, I’ve got news for you. If he lies about some things to some people, he’s most likely told you some lies too. Constantly being lied to will eventually damage your self-esteem and trust in him, so do yourself a favor and steer clear.
8. A Momma's Boy
There’s nothing wrong with being a momma’s boy, most guys are, but there are limits. If your guy would rather talk about his problems to his mom than you, it’s a red flag. If her opinion is more important to him than yours, maybe he’s not the ideal husband for you.
7. A Heartbreaker
6. A Cheater
If he had a girlfriend or wife when he started seeing you, then he’s a cheater. You know how the saying goes, “once a cheater, always a cheater.” If he was wiling to cheat on her with you, what makes you so sure he won’t do it again?
You're family isn’t trying to be mean. There’s probably a good reason why your parents don’t approve. You’ll eventually see why, whether you marry him or not. Take your loved ones advice when it comes to who you chose to be with, they typically see things that you are blind to in your relationship.
Does he put work before you? This will get old eventually. Reasons behind him being a workaholic can mean trouble too. Is he using work to avoid being home, or is he using it as a cover to be somewhere else? These are questions you’ll eventually ask after he misses dinner for the 400th time.
It’s hard to even like people that are selfish, so why would you want to marry one? We are all selfish to an extent, but some guys push the limit. Do you always go where he wants to eat, do what he wants to do, with no question of what you would like? A relationship is all about compromise, but there’s just no compromising with some people.
2. A Big Spender
Guys who are always buying flashy things, and blowing their money on crazy things are used to the freedom to do what they please with money. This is all fine and dandy until it comes time to buy the kids school clothes, or pay the house payment. You’ll be wondering where all the money went, but at least he’ll have a fancy watch and sports car.2. A Big Spender
Do you feel the need to always have your makeup done when you see him? Does he get grossed out when you aren’t all dolled-up? A vain guy is a shallow guy, and ladies, you do not want any part of that. Having a man you can lounge around and be yourself with is what makes relationships fun and comfortable. You don’t want a husband you can’t be comfortable around.
Written By; QillaGH (Kleef Phamily Media)